Boys…

I’ve been talking to a boy lately.  He seems like a very genuine and sweet guy.  I’m starting to like him.  Like, of course I was interested in him, or I wouldn’t have wanted to talk to him.  Not like “Like” but, I’d honestly like to get to know him better and take it from there.  Well the problem is, he’s quite the busy guy and he doesn’t know if he wants a relationship considering how busy he is. So I’m kinda wondering If I’m wasting my time by talking to him, because eventually I’m going to start liking him, and I don’t want to like him that way unless he’s going to be interested in me.  I want there to be a possibility that we could date.  I’m not sure what to do.  I don’t want to just flat out ask him if I’m wasting my time, because I don’t want to make it seem like I want to jump in to a relationship with him or anything of that nature.  I’m not sure how to ask him without being blunt about it.  I just want to know if there’s the slightest possibility that we could make it work if things keep going well.  We relate on a lot of things and it seems like maybe we could be good together.  I really want to keep getting to know him.  He seems interested in talking to me when we talk on the phone, which is good.  I know for a fact if things keep going as they are that I’m going to start liking him, it’s only natural.  I definitely don’t want to rush into anything right away. I want to talk to him, hang out with him, take him to the movies or something like that.  I think that would be great, just not rush in to making it official or what not.  I just don’t want to try to get to know him if it’s not going to be worth it.  I mean, that sounds quite narrowminded or some other word I can’t think of at this time of night, but it’s how I feel.  Like, he’s a great guy, and I know if we keep talking I’m going to start liking him, I just want to know if it’s the same way with him. :/ I’m done rambling.  Boys : P

~ by dreamchrisdream on October 11, 2008.